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When Kids Actually Start Understanding Consequences
I used to explain consequences to my daughter in ways I now realize were completely beyond what she…
Living With a Defiant 4-Year-Old: What’s Normal, What’s Not
My friend’s four year old told her “no” so many times in one morning last week that she…
The Identity Crisis Nobody Warns Stay-at-Home Moms About
About a year into staying home full time, I caught myself struggling to answer a simple “so what…
Readers Share Who Actually Showed Up As Their Village
I asked readers a simple question a few weeks back: who actually showed up as your village, not…
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Living With a Defiant 4-Year-Old: What’s Normal, What’s Not
My friend’s four year old told her “no” so many times in one morning last week that she…
When Kids Actually Start Understanding Consequences
I used to explain consequences to my daughter in ways I now realize were completely beyond what she…
The Identity Crisis Nobody Warns Stay-at-Home Moms About
About a year into staying home full time, I caught myself struggling to answer a simple “so what…
A Letter About Who You’re Becoming, Written While I Still Notice
I caught a glimpse of my daughter’s personality shifting again recently, subtly but unmistakably, and wanted to write…
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What Actually Helps When Parenting a 3-Year-Old
Three was a genuinely different animal than two, in ways nobody fully prepared me for. The tantrums didn’t…
The Real Reasons I Love Being a Mom, Not the Instagram Version
If you asked me to explain why I love being a mom using only the version I post…
Building Traditions That Fit a Blended Family
A close friend of mine, three years into blending her family with her husband’s two kids, told me…
Helping Your Child Through Starting a New School
My daughter had two weeks of stomach aches leading up to switching preschools, even though the actual first…
Toddler Milestones by Age: What To Actually Expect
I used to keep a running mental tally of everything my daughter hadn’t done yet. Not walking at the exact week the…
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Why Kids Throw Things When They’re Angry, and What To Do Instead
My daughter hurled a toy across the room the moment I said no to something, and I had…
When Your Child Says They Don’t Want To Go To School
My daughter announced one morning, with complete and total conviction, that she simply wasn’t going to school anymore,…
Recovering From Parent Burnout When You Can’t Just Rest
A friend admitted she’d been running on fumes for months, and the advice to “just rest” felt almost…
Online Safety Tips Every Parent Should Actually Use
My daughter asked to download an app her friend was already using, and I genuinely realized I didn’t…
A Birthday Letter I Write My Child Every Single Year
I started writing my daughter a short letter on every birthday almost by accident, and now it’s become…
When Should a Child Actually Be Potty Trained? The Real Range
Every relative at a recent family gathering had a different opinion about when my daughter should have been…
5 Real Signs Your Child Is Ready for Potty Training
I tried potty training my daughter once, too early, and we both ended up frustrated within a single…
How To Tell If Your Child Is Actually Behind, or Just Different
A friend once mentioned her toddler was doing something mine hadn’t started yet, and I spent the rest…
When Toddlers Start Talking in Full Sentences
The day my daughter strung together her first real sentence, “I want more juice please,” I nearly dropped…